The institution of marriage plays an important role in our African setup, that’s why pressure is mounted on women to hurriedly settle down when their so-called biological clock starts ticking.
It is for this reason, most women succumb to the pressure and walk down the aisle with men they are not fully compatible with or have a love for in the first place. Others take their time to make sure most of the specs they look out for in a man are met before making the big decision, no matter how long it takes.
It seems for the second group, their problem is going to be compounded further after one marriage counselor took to an online platform to tell men never to marry women who are 30-yrs and above.
She actually used the Bible to express her debatable and falsifiable point and it’s just a matter of time before someone uses the same Bible to counteract her theory.
Her full text reads:
“Today I am going to tell you why as a man, you should not marry a woman that’s above 30 years of age.
1. They are desperate.
Most women above 30 that are unmarried will never marry for love and that’s a fact.
They will only go into marriage because they are desperate, they want to be Mrs by all means possible.
And what is a marriage without love?
And this is why even after marriage, you as a man begin to question if she really loves you.
2. Spirit husbands.
Now like it or not, most women above 30, most especially NIGERIAN women have spirit husbands.
Now in numerous Churches during deliverance, if you observe very critically, you will discover that most women above 30 that are unmarried always have the problem of spirit husbands.
Now why this is very dangerous is that you always hear the demonic Spirit husbands speak out and say things like:
I destroy all the men that came into her life.
She will never get married.
I killed the last man that was with her.
See brothers, truth is that marrying women above 30 is always dangerous because if the reason she is unmarried In her 30s is because of a Spirit husband then your life is in danger.
3. They are controlling.
Women above 30 tend to be controlling in relationships, they will never listen or obey like ladies below 30.
They have this “I know it all” attitude because, in their minds, they are no longer kids so they tend to disobey the husband and are never submissive.
4. They will not love your family.
One of the things that have shaped us as men in this life is the love of our parents and siblings and friends.
But all that seems to be jeopardized when we marry a woman above 30.
For the fact that they want to be in control, they are never one with your family, they brought up attitude that will chase your family away from you and as a man, if you are not mentally strong, they will make you stop talking to your family including your parents and childhood friends.
Check the records, you will see that most men that abandoned their family including Mom and Dad, married their wives when they are above the 30s.
You see the young 23 to 27 years old wife are always submissive and obedient because as a young lady, she listens to the advice of elders.
5. They marry for money.
Most women above their 30s marry for money.
If you think a woman that has lived her life and has seen lots of things and is now above 30, if you think she will marry you for love, then as a guy, you are on a long thing.
They all marry for the money, and this is why some go into their 40s unmarried because they have been waiting for that perfect money man while jumping from one money man to another.
6. Lack of Long-lasting Marriage.
Now do your research very well, most married couples that are celebrating 20 to 40 years of marriage, the husband married the wife when she was in her 20s. It will take a divine miracle for you to see a 20 years old anniversary when the husband married the wife when she was above 30.“