Don’t run to pastors with marital problems – Gifty Osei advises couples
People relate and share issues with their close friends, family or even a counselor when they realize something is getting them depressed or out of line.
There is a generally accepted believe which supports sharing your problems, because it’s believed through that your solutions might surface.
But gospel musician, Empress Gifty Adorye has urged married couples to resort to solving their own problems than opening up to people outside it.
According to her, sharing one’s problems with a friend or a family member, is tantamount to digging one’s own grave.
She explained that “the more you run to people, the more you make mistakes.”
Mrs Adorye thinks the best way to solve marital problems is to have a deeper communication with your spouse.
“Running to pastors, spiritual mothers and fathers will only deepen your woes”, she added.
She told host of Adom FM’s Work and Happiness show, OPD, that “the more you run to people the more you make mistakes. Talk to your spouse first. If you want to part ways, It shouldn’t be a fight and it shouldn’t be a yoke upon your life.
“If you have a problem, don’t go to your pastor, spiritual mother, and fathers. The people you are talking to even wants what you have. You have to run to God,” she advised.